Will I ever fall pregnant? Am I worthy of being a mother? What do I eat? What don't I eat? How fat will I get? Will it really hurt as much as they all say? What if I lose my baby? What if I don't go full term? Is it possible to die of pain? Will I be a good mum? Do I even want to be a mum? Am I ready to add to the family? Can I do this alone? What if I need IVF? What if I'm not here when my children need me the most? I can hear my biological clock ticking! Can I even afford a baby? C-Section or natural birth? My partner cant even make the bed, let alone be a father (actually neither can I) What if I have twins...or even worse, triplets? Pain relief or no pain relief? Stretch marks....nope, not me!..........All these fears and insecurities are very real for us mums and mums to be.
Sometimes we need to voice our fears and release them, to avoid creating an endless snow ball effect of fear and irrational thoughts and behaviours. Sure, some of our thoughts can be based on factual information, yet the tendency to exaggerate and think the worse case scenarios can become habitual and not helpful in the least. Trying to conceive a baby can be a very stressful time if it takes a long while (or longer than we envisioned). It's also true that mum's can feel a heavy sense of guilt towards women that are trying so hard to fall pregnant with no success. As women, naturally we are intuitive, empathetic and emotional.
Becoming a mother is a beautiful gift and at the same time, can be quite detrimental to our mental health if we are not grounded and balanced. Due to raging hormones around conception and pregnancy, we need to be mindful of giving ourselves a regular check up from the neck up.
​Having worked closely with many women at different stages of their journeys, I have been able to offer support, comfort and spiritual guidance to find peace and understanding with the situations they have found themselves in.
Incorporating the clarity of an EFT session or the flow of loving healing energy of a Reiki treatment, and the guidance of the Universe and past loved ones with a Soul Reading, have been extremely helpful. Intuitively we can discuss where you are at and tailor your treatments accordingly.
some days you may just simply want to drift off to a restful rejuvinating sleep with a lovley healing and other days you may be fuming at unresolved angert hat needs to be desperately released. ith unresolved anger that needs to be released. This journey is a never ending roller coaster at times, please allow me the pleasure of riding it out along side of you and showing you how to smooth the rise and falls a little. After all, what a wondrous, magical time it really is.